I dunno why people like to make a big hooha over a girl calling her dear boy-friends(just friends) intimate nicks like dear,darling and sorts.When a girl call her dear girl-friends(just friends) a dear or a darling,no one would thinks that she is a lesbian or whatever,but when it comes to a girl who calls her boy-friends that, then people would start judging her by using general steoreotyped peceptions.Don't understand?Just as,when a girl calls her boy-friend a dear or darling,general stereotyped perception = the boy is her boyfriend.

Worse case scenario is,when the girl is attached.Then rumours like bullets and missiles flying around in the war of U.S and Middle-East countries.

At times,things are not what you think it is.Sometimes you wanna advise your friend can,but think of the consequences.You might break your friend's relationship because of what you say.Words are authoritative.Your friend believes you because you're the authoritarian, as in,a authoritarian knows clearly what he or she is talking about.


Words can kill a fragile relationship.